Leadership requires a winning attitude

When the Leadership Path Gets Steep                 

I was breathing hard after 20 minutes on the mountain trail.  It was my first hike of the season and the long winter lay-off was catching up with me.  As I continued to struggle up the path I found myself looking only at my feet, taking one step after another.

Forced to stop in order to catch my breath, I looked around and took in the beauty of the forest with the sunny filtering between the trees and the wild flowers in bloom.  This observation diverted my focus away from my physical struggles and helped to renew me.

After my break I headed up the trail but this time I focused on my surroundings instead of my feet.  For some reason the path was easier even though it was still steep. 

At times, leaders are caught up in the moment when facing a big challenge.  When this occurs they may dwell exclusively on the problem.  While this may help to resolve the problem, it can also burden the leader unnecessarily as the big picture fades into the background and a true perspective of the significance of the problem is lost.

When a problem arises it is important to stop and take a look at the big picture.  Notice the positive things that are occurring - such as a great team, positive culture or individual commitment.  By stepping back from the problem the leader is able to gauge the true impact of the problem.  As a result, the problem can be handled in a manner that reflects its real significance.

You Have to be Allowed to Fail in Order to Grow

I watched the 75 ROTC cadets form up in preparation to march down the dirt road as part of a field training exercise in 1994.  Their cadet leader, Ted Lee, thought he knew where he was going but he hadn’t reconed the route beforehand to make sure.  I was responsible for developing Lee and the other college seniors who were about to be commissioned as Second Lieutenants in the U.S. Army.  Off everyone went following Lee down the wrong road. 

After walking about ½ a mile I saw Lee looking around for the training site and getting noticeably anxious when he couldn’t locate it.  He stopped the group, sought me out and asked if I knew where we were.  I reminded him that as a future officer it was his responsibility to know his location.  Lee gave me the 1,000 yard stare and was clearly confused about what he should do next.

After a couple of minutes I began to coach Lee by asking him what aids he had to help him find his location.  He pulled out his map.  When I asked him about his compass, Lee responded he hadn’t brought it along.   The group looking to him to figure out what to do was getting him more rattled by the moment. 

As adults we learn by trial and error and this means being unsuccessful at times.  In order to develop employees they need to be given the opportunity to grow using this method of trial and error and to be allowed to fail. This process is not without costs.  It is hard to stand by and watch someone go down the wrong road and be willing to pay the consequences.  However, giving someone the opportunity to be unsuccessful will reimburse itself many times over as employees enhance their skills and return even greater value to the company.

Lee figured out where he was and moved the group to the training site.  After that incident he could be seen rehearsing the next route with map and compass in hand.  I doubt as an Army Officer Lee ever went to the field without making sure he knew where he was going.

"People expect their leaders to speak out on matters of values and conscience.  
 But to speak out, leaders have to know what to speak about.  
 To stand up for their beliefs, the have to know what they stand for. 
 To walk the talk, leaders have to have a talk to walk. 
 To do what they say, they have to know what they want to say.  
 To earn and sustain personal credibility, leaders must first be able to clearly 
 articulate deeply held beliefs."
 Kouzes & Posner, A Coach's Guide to Developing Exemplary Leaders

Leaders Need to be Brave

I have a favorite coffee mug.  When I use it, I am reminded of a brave leader, Linda Samel. 

Our paths crossed about 10 years ago when Linda took over the food service program for the school district.  It was mid-year and she was moving from running a single school food service operation to managing the district’s food service program consisting of 20 schools.

Linda was a humble and quiet person who always thought the best of people.  She was uncomfortable being in the spotlight and always gave credit to others when the light shined her way.

The new position was a leap for Linda.  It required managing a complex two million dollar enterprise operation, leading 90 food service employees, forecasting a program a year in advance and understanding the complex needs of the school district.

These challenges were significant but the biggest one for Linda was making the tough decisions that involved food service staff and their livelihoods. Linda had come up through the food service program and knew many of these employees personally.  She identified with them, a difficult position for a leader.

In spite of her trepidation, Linda faced all of the challenges without hesitation.  She gathered information, talked to the staff and then moved resolutely toward decision making.  Linda delivered bad news in person. Given her nature, it was difficult for her to make the decisions affecting staffing but she knew it was what her job required and she didn’t shy from the responsibility.  Linda was a brave leader.

As I worked with Linda I appreciated her deep concern for students she had developed during her career in food service.  Linda was committed to helping children be successful by giving them good food to eat, both appetizing and nutritious.  She knew that school meals were keeping some students from going hungry. Linda’s concern for students was her motivation to help overcome any personal challenges she faced.

Linda made the decision to leave school food service.  She left on her own terms and without any reservation about her commitment to the students.  We were also sorry to see her go but we felt we were better at our jobs for having the opportunity to serve with her. 

Leaders need to do what is right, not what is easy.  Members of the group or employees expect leaders to be brave.  This is not an option if the leader wants to foster credibility and trust.  Leaders need to have the courage to make the tough call; to be like a rock in the river when the current is pushing hard.  

Linda was brave when facing her last and final challenge. She gave me the coffee mug as on office present one year for Christmas.  Every time I use the mug I draw inspiration from Linda’s example. 

Walking the Talk Key to Being Credibile

As a Second Lieutenant in the Army in the mid 70’s I was privileged to know First Sergeant (1SG) Willie Crowe.  He had a small stature and spoke very softly with an accent that reflected his rural Florida roots. He spoke in a quiet and concise manner but when he spoke everyone listened.  His troops respected him, even the soldiers who screwed up.

Upon my arrival to the unit, 1SG Crowe took it upon himself to train me.  He showed me how to inspect equipment, the barracks and the mess hall and how to evaluate training. At the end of my training 1SG Crowe told me that I needed to figure what was important to me and how I would demonstrate that to the soldiers. He said soldiers would observe me and draw their own conclusions about what was important and if they could trust me enough to follow me. 

1SG Crowe’s message struck a chord with me.  Talking about what is important is not enough.  You have to ‘walk the talk’.  Mark Twain said it well, “Actions speak louder than words, just not as often.” I took that advice to heart and tried to figure out if my priorities were consistent with my actions.  I asked others for their input.  It was tough to hear when I was told my actions didn’t match up with my statements.

Understanding what is important to a leader along with demonstrating that consistently over time and across situations is fundamental to gaining followers.  The leader in choosing to say something is important must set out to demonstrate that it is actually important.  Here are a couple of examples. 

Providing great customer service requires the owner to be personally involved with this process.  The staff needs to see the leader modeling how to interact with customers, to receive coaching on better ways to service customers and to be recognized for providing customer service well. Saying customer service is important and then disappearing into the office with little customer interaction tells employees that customer service is really not important.

Wanting feedback as the boss is much easier said than done.  Challenges exist to getting this accomplished – fear of telling the boss bad news and the requirement to follow through. If the leader truly wants feedback there are steps that have to be taken – build effective relationships with employees, control your reaction to negative information and follow up in a timely manner to resolve problems identified as a result of the feedback.  This may include a need for the leader to change a behavior.  This is a lot of work but not completing these steps will tell employees that the leader is not serious about receiving feedback.

Before deciding what is important, leaders need to ask themselves how they are going to demonstrate that importance.  As a result of doing this a leader may be confronted by the reality of not being able ‘to walk the talk’ because of too many competing demands.  If that happens, the leader should ask if it is truly important.  Trying to cut corners by not demonstrating the importance will undermine the leader’s credibility and the trust the leader needs from their followers.  What is important should be captured in a short and simple list and be communicated and demonstrated consistently.  Otherwise, it is difficult for others to follow.

I ran into 1SG Crown many years later.  He had been promoted to Division Command Sergeant Major, a very senior position.  He hadn’t changed a bit.  He had a junior officer in tow and he was instructing her about the role of officers.

Helping Others is Critical to Effective Leadership

As I hurried down the hall many years ago I shuddered at the problem I faced.  A million questions were racing through my mind.  What had happened?  How did the budget get so out of whack?  The more I looked at the problem, the worse it became.  After I walked into Bruce Moyer’s office, my boss, and gave him the bad news, Moyer listened intently to my explanation of the budget problem and asked a couple follow up questions.  He grabbed a pad of paper and asked me to join him at a table. 

For the next two hours, with Moyer leading the way, we hammered out a strategy to get out of this crisis.  He reached into his bag of experiences and found the tools that could solve this dilemma.  Throughout the process, he maintained a positive outlook, encouraged comments and checked for understanding.  At the conclusion of the work session, he looked at me and told me that this plan was going to work and not to worry about it anymore. 

I learned a lot that day about how managers need to be helpful.  My expectation (and what I deserved) was to have my head handed to me.  I learned later that Moyer had chosen not to go down that road because he knew what I needed at that time.

Being helpful as a manager takes many forms.  It is ensuring that the employee has what they need to be successful.  For a new project, this starts with a clearly defined outcome.  If the manager is unsure of the outcome, how can the employee expect to get the project moving in the right direction?  In addition to providing direction, resources are required.  This includes such basics as time and equipment.  Also, the manager needs to be committed to the project by continuing to be engaged, available and approachable.

In order for managers to be helpful in day-to-day operations they need to be aware of what is going on so they can be there to offer assistance when necessary.  One of the ways to accomplish this is to have an on-going dialogue with each employee.  This allows for the manager to stay engaged and review the work process and observe the employee.  Are things on track?  How is the employee morale?  By doing this ‘check-in’ employees are more apt to engage the manager when problems arise.

Inevitably using a helpful approach will generate challenges.  One of these may be an attempt by an employee to place the task, ‘the monkey’, back on the manager.  If this happens, one approach is for the manager to insist that the task remains the employee’s responsibility.  Another potential obstacle is the time and flexibility required to tailor the help specifically to the individual.  Some employees are risk averse and therefore need more reassurance.  Others are independent and want to run with the project so the managers may want to pull back and let this happen.

Employees want to be challenged but they need resources and they don’t want to feel left alone to complete the task.  They want to be able to turn to someone and receive help.  Not to do their job, but to review the work accomplished so far, answer questions, and offer suggestions and encouragement.  Ultimately work results remain with the manager and one of the methods to maximize these results is by being there to assist the employee achieve the best outcome.